Auditory (yellow)
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Did somebody ask for a juicy blog? OK, here we go!
Her name is Maria Emilia Beyer Ruiz. She is intelligent. She is a professional. She is brilliant. She's clear. She is FUN. She was the great lecturer I could appreciate the other day at a conference entitled La Quimica del Amor/The Chemistry of Love. As the title suggest, the lecture dealt with the most recent discoveries of brain biochemical functioning and that emotion we call "love". Here's an abstract of the lecture that lasted about an hour. Paraphrasing is inevitable but I have done the best effort about doing a rigurous presentaton of the ideas she exposed: First, she established that it was final: Love, as an emotion, is not in the heart but in the brain, and in a particular zone, the so-called Limbic System. So, from now on, we shouldn't say "You broke my Heart", but "you broke my Limbic System",! From the start, she made clear we should distinguish between Being in Love and Loving another person. That was both, surprising and fun. Falling in Love/Being in Love: to fall in Love with a person seems almost literal, yes, it's like a Free Fall! Of course, our sensors are deeply involved at the beginning. We are primarily visual primates, so the image of our love subject is very important, but not only that, our sense of smell, and the capacity of our nasal membranes to detect human pheromones, our specific biochemical signals to attract potential mates, are very important too; this is the process that seems to be involved when you feel the chemestry towards a person that doesn't seem the type you are usally attracted to. Enter dopamine. Yup, we begin to secrete these special neurotransmitter in unusually high doses so we literally become doped about these other person! We become a physical and emotional mess. We feel the very well-known butterflies in the stomach, we lose our sleep, we don't eat or eat too much, e.g. we might be incappable to eat our usually favorite dishes, or, if we don't have this person at hand, a triple Banana Split might be a suitable temporal substitute...! We laugh and we cry for the most atypical resons... kilometers of syrupy pseudopoetry are written... just the sight of this person accelerates our heartbeats... oh well...! Maria Emilia talked also about the experiments and how, thanks to the high number of individuals that entered the studies, it was possible to even obtain a media of the duration of these state: 14 months. However, she ponted out. this is a media, there were individuals who lasted 9 months or attained full 2 years! Many initiated a relationship during these state, many would receive a negative and would get the disastrous pain of a Broken Limbic System, or become obsessed. Some excepional cases would become even certainly patholgical. However, In the end, to maintain this state is very expensive energetically, so the body decides to end it. Dopamine secretion begins to slow down so these dream person begins to be no such a dream. The defects we so overlooked all along, jump before our eyes, and their blinding beauty starts not to be that blinding anymore. Symptoms can be certainly funny: e.g. this person calls at 03:00 AM. When we were in love we might have responded with a melodic "oh baby, how are you? No, no problem about the hour! I was just dreaming about you...!", but now that dopamine is not there in such excess we might just respond with a dry "Hey, i'ts 03:00 AM! What's wrong with you? Are you drunk?" It's at this point, said Maria Emilia, that a lot of people would lose interest in the other person to such and extent that they would end breaking up the relationship. Some, having become addicted to the doped-in-love state would jump from one state of being in love to other for a long time, or even for a lifetime. However, some, she pointed out, particularly the most psychologically mature ones -not a matter of age, she said- would take the relationship to another phase: a loving relationship. In this state, the neurotransmitters like dopamine are no longer in high levels but brain biochemestry is not the same anymore, a new level of equilibrium has been reached and the two people might simply like to spend time in the presence of each other and they would stimulate the secretion of some other biomolecules like the endorphins -the pleasure neurotransmitters in the brain- now and then. This state lacks the state of exaltation of the previous one but can keep being passionate; besides, because it is not as energetically expensive, it has the potential to last much longer, even a lifetime. Well, this is the interesting lecture Emilia gave us on a Friday more than a week ago in a nutshell, and that I thought about sharing with you all. Besides, there were some funny or intersting questions from the public. The majority were people in the field of sciences there, since the event was a session of the "Cafe Cientifico" we have around here. I will remember some good Q&A, they are also obviously paraphrased:. A funny one was asked by a guy: "I am about to take some vacations and I want it to be some pleasant ones. Is there a pill or an injection of dopamines or endorphnes for that?" (everyone laughed!) The response of Maria Emilia was a sound NO. However, "...a nice level of endorphines can be reached with physical excercise" - she said-. So her advice to this guy was to visit the gym before taking his vacation. Since he was obviously overweight he didn't like it that much! Another question was by a woman, a divorced, mature one, known to be a bit passional: "Can we live a higher-intensity loving experience even at an older age?" "Could be," - said Maria Emilia-"but in general it is much more intense in our youth, when our brains are functioning at full speed, we are full of enegry, and the social and cultural conditionings are not getting in the way." Then there were obviously some questions about fidelity. "There's still not a consensus," -said Maria Emilia- "in our culture the stereotypes -faithful female, infidel male- make it difficult to grasp a rigorous interpretation of the available data. That this stereotype have no scientific veracity is obvious since female and male stereotypes have greately varied on these and many other aspects in space and time, from culture to culture.". And then came the inevitable question: "Is homosexual love equal to heterosexual love?" "They are exactly the same" -said Maria Emilia- "they are indistinguishable".
Love you all,
Luis.